Thousands of singles complain that they never meet anyone. Singles who don't meet new people aren't actively looking or making themselves available. “Single men and women are everywhere. If you're willing to approach, you can turn coffee into conversation,” said Joyce Pu, the founder of thechoice.co.nz.
If you are a single and looking for dates, then you should ask yourself; did I talk to anyone in line while waiting for coffee? Did I talk to anyone at the gym? Did I talk to anyone at the video store? If not, it's time to get more active. It's time to hang out in singles hot-spots. It's time to start conversations and spark attraction. “Conversation is the only way for two people to make a lasting connection,” said Joyce.
After two years of running singles social events and speed dating, and meeting thousands of singles in Wellington, Joyce still has the passion to provide opportunities for singles to meet others, to have fun and to find someone special. Approaching is the key to the success of dating. Singles who don't fear approaching others rarely stay single for very long.
Joyce has created The Choice Junction for single men and women to meet in everyday situations. She says that it combines the best of both traditional and modern ways of dating and involves wearing a recognisable Junction Icon, which allows other Junction members to recognise you as single and looking for a partner – Junction has been launched this week around the country. Membership includes the fabulous accessory that will make you stand out, as well as fantastic approach guidelines, phone call advice, attraction and conversation skill tips.
It aims to make dating fun and let singles find each other easier. If you are sick of the bar scene with the mixture of loud music, frenzied dancing and alcohol consumption, or you get bored with online dating where you sit in front of your computer and talk to people you have not met, you may need to seek a new way of meeting people and finding someone special, as well as having fun. Joyce says that singles are everywhere; at the gym, yoga, book stores, dance class, supermarket, etc… you just need to keep your eyes open for the Junction Icon and approach that person, knowing they will welcome your advance.
www.thechoice.co.nz